Well-being of all members
Posted: Thu Oct 31, 2019 1:09 am
I am at a loss on what to say and even if I did, how to say it. What I have read, I have found extremely confronting.
I got on this Forum late tonite and was in disbelief of what I was reading.
Firstly Kenle and Voodoo
Jason, if you fall, we shall pick you up.
BUT a lot of other innocent members are being dragged down into being exposed to this erratic and confronting behaviour of yours, and some of these members may be having their own well-being issues to deal with (which I know personally some are). This behaviour of yours needs to stop.
Jason, I do care what happens to you, as a lot of us do. I was that concerned, that a short while back I went and sought out professional guidance in ways and things that I could do to be able to help you. The people that I spoke to, once they had an understanding of what you are dealing with, were also concerned for you and want the best for you.
PLEASE PLEASE get help
Kids Helpline 1800 551 800
I spoke to them as well and they were very nice, it was easy and comfortable to talk to them and they made me feel confident that they would be able to make you feel the same.
The Forum as a whole community, has given you heaps of courtesy and the "benefit of the doubt" an inordinate amount of time. The intent of giving you courtesy and benefit of doubt, was in hoping that you would turn things around for the better, for yourself. Unfortunately that hasn't happened, in fact the opposite has occurred. And as a result the Forum and it's members have been exposed to some unfortunate things, even to death wishes of other members.
Boonanza was forthright in asking a question, that was his prerogative. It was mentioned to your defence that he had a choice to leave it to the Mods BUT that was not a courtesy you (or others) gave him. Boonanza didn't deserve how you (or others) treated him, that treatment is beyond how rational sensible people should behave. And as per "The Forum Rules", members on this forum should not be exposed to that kind of behaviour.
To your defence somewhat Jason, some other members should know better and unfortunately you weren't giving the guidance you should have been given. But you are an adult and should also not allow yourself to get into those misguided situations.
Jason, as much as I care about you, I also care about all the other members and their well-being too. Having other members and myself exposed to this kind of behaviour of yours is not good for us AND it is not good for you either. Jason, it is clear that you struggle to cope with this Forum environment and you seem to struggle with adhering to Forum protocols and Forum disciplinary advice.
The only course of action I can see, given your recent confronting behaviour, is for the time being, for you to remove yourself (or be removed) from this Forum so you can get help and work on bettering your well-being.
Regards Bugatti
I got on this Forum late tonite and was in disbelief of what I was reading.
Firstly Kenle and Voodoo
Jason, if you fall, we shall pick you up.
BUT a lot of other innocent members are being dragged down into being exposed to this erratic and confronting behaviour of yours, and some of these members may be having their own well-being issues to deal with (which I know personally some are). This behaviour of yours needs to stop.
Jason, I do care what happens to you, as a lot of us do. I was that concerned, that a short while back I went and sought out professional guidance in ways and things that I could do to be able to help you. The people that I spoke to, once they had an understanding of what you are dealing with, were also concerned for you and want the best for you.
PLEASE PLEASE get help
Kids Helpline 1800 551 800
I spoke to them as well and they were very nice, it was easy and comfortable to talk to them and they made me feel confident that they would be able to make you feel the same.
The Forum as a whole community, has given you heaps of courtesy and the "benefit of the doubt" an inordinate amount of time. The intent of giving you courtesy and benefit of doubt, was in hoping that you would turn things around for the better, for yourself. Unfortunately that hasn't happened, in fact the opposite has occurred. And as a result the Forum and it's members have been exposed to some unfortunate things, even to death wishes of other members.
Boonanza was forthright in asking a question, that was his prerogative. It was mentioned to your defence that he had a choice to leave it to the Mods BUT that was not a courtesy you (or others) gave him. Boonanza didn't deserve how you (or others) treated him, that treatment is beyond how rational sensible people should behave. And as per "The Forum Rules", members on this forum should not be exposed to that kind of behaviour.
To your defence somewhat Jason, some other members should know better and unfortunately you weren't giving the guidance you should have been given. But you are an adult and should also not allow yourself to get into those misguided situations.
Jason, as much as I care about you, I also care about all the other members and their well-being too. Having other members and myself exposed to this kind of behaviour of yours is not good for us AND it is not good for you either. Jason, it is clear that you struggle to cope with this Forum environment and you seem to struggle with adhering to Forum protocols and Forum disciplinary advice.
The only course of action I can see, given your recent confronting behaviour, is for the time being, for you to remove yourself (or be removed) from this Forum so you can get help and work on bettering your well-being.
Regards Bugatti